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Regardless of how great your current relationship is, it’s almost inevitable that your sex lives will become a routine. And before you know it, you and your partner have slipped into that mode where making love is `just another thing you do as couples’. So how do you prevent this from happening: include SEX GAMES as one of your bedroom activities!

Sex games are fun, exciting and help keep sexual tension high in the bedroom (or out of it too!). They are also great ways to bring out the `wilder’ side of just about anyone. Think about it. Normally, you may not indulge in using food items when you’re making love. But under the disguise of a sex game, everything is possible. You and your partner somehow become `other people’.

Unfortunately, not everybody is `game’ to explore sex games. If your partner is one of them, then read on to find out how you can convince her to give it try.

The 3 Golden Rules of Sex Games

The worst thing you can do is to just whip out your sex games paraphernalia out of the blue. If you’re lucky, your partner may find it amusing and give it a try… just this once. If not, she’ll probably think you’ve lost it!

The best way to include sex games into your lives is to discuss it with her and mention all the advantages and benefits it can do not only to your sex lives but to your relationship as well. Mention too that sex games are great ways to slowly bring HER sexual fantasies to life.

To further get rid of her worries, discuss these three golden rules.

Agree to keep an open mind.

Nothing kills the mood of a sex game better than having this thought constantly at the back of one’s mind “hmmm, this is probably not for me…”. Instead, agree to keep an open mind to everything. The rule should be “I’ll try it at least once and then decide if I like it or not.” And when you guys do try a sex game, try it with real interest and passion. Remember: if you do it, do it good!

Agree to have a codeword.

Of course, not everybody has the same level of keenness to try different kinds of sex games. Some games may just be a bit too far for some. For instance, some of my male clients would just about try anything with gusto except handcuffs!

The best way to address this issue is to agree on a codeword that either of you can use. Once this word is spoken, it means that the sex game has reached it’s `not fun anymore’ level for that person and so the other must stop immediately.

Agree to keep your sex games private… or not.

Not all couples try sex games so it may be very tempting to inform your best bud on how hot your sex lives are. Before you open your mouth, discuss this with your partner. She may be worried about she will be perceived by your friends and as such not want such stories to leave your bedroom.

Of course, the same goes for you. She may want to rush off to her gal pals and give them every minute detail of what transpired between the two of you last night. Would you like that?

So to avoid any awkwardness, discuss this issue with your partner even before you indulge in sex games. Are you guys going to keep this private or not?

Sex Games – How to Get in the Mood

Just because sex games are fun and exciting and hot does not mean you (or your partner) are always in the mood for it. So what do you do if one of you wants to engage in sex games and the other doesn’t? Following are some tips.

Start with a good, relaxing dinner! You guys can go out or just have a quiet dinner at home. However, be sure to dress up a little. Keep your work clothes on. As for her, ask her to wear those sexy high heels. (You won’t believe how a woman feels 10x sexier the minute she steps into some killer heels!) Open a bottle of wine and just chill out.

Take a long, luxurious bath together.

Create a nice relaxing atmosphere. Dim the lights, light some candles, play some soft music.

Give each other a massage that can easily turn into a sexual massage if you like.

Do any of the above tips to relax your bodies and minds. These are guaranteed to put you in the mood for some serious sex playing afterwards.

Undoubtedly one of the best places to indulge in sex games is in the bathroom. Jut think about it: the scintillating smell of the bath soap, the sexy suds, the cascading water over your bodies… sexy! However, before you engage in sex games under the shower or in the bathroom, you should never forget certain `rules of engagement’.

Sex games rules are very important especially if you guys are just starting out to include sex games in your relationship. It is quite understandable that one of you (or both) is not that comfortable yet with sex games for many reasons, such as fear of embarrassing yourself, fear of being pressured into doing something that you really don’t want to do, fear of physically (and thus, emotionally) hurting your lover and vice versa, and many others.

To prevent these problems, it is imperative that you and your lover establish certain ground rules when it comes to bathroom or shower sex games. Doing so has the following benefits:

You’re forced to open up and discuss things that may or may not be bothering you regarding bathroom sex games.

You establish certain thresholds, which in turn make you more comfortable in engaging in shower sex games in the first place.

You establish deeper trust in your relationship.

Basic Sex Game Rules

When you pre-agree on certain things regarding sex games, you’ll be more comfortable engaging in them and thus enjoy them more! Following is a quick rundown of common sex game rules.

Agree to both have an open mind.

Shower and bathroom sex games bring certain `dangers’ to mind in many couples: slipping on the tub, banging your head against the wall, slipping and breaking your arm, etc. HOWEVER, why focus on the negative, right?

When you bring sexual playfulness into your relationship, it’s important to establish right at the start to keep and open mind. Do not say no to something for fear of the unknown. Instead, give it a try! Who knows, you might end up liking it way more than you ever thought.

Agree to surprises.

One of the most wonderful aspects of sex games is the surprise factor. As such, don’t be so hung up on `needing’ to know what’s going to happen. Just relax and try it. Think of it this way: the experience will reveal to you just how far your lover will go when it’s up to him/her to surprise you with a sex game.

On the other hand, if you’re the one surprising your lover, be responsible. For instance, you know that things can get very wet and wild inside the bathroom during a sex game so make sure rubber mats, rubber bathtub pillows, towels and maybe even a chair (to aid in getting in and out of the bathtub properly) is there to ensure safety at all times.

Agree to have a STOP word.

Not everybody has the same level of sexual playfulness inside or outside the bedroom. As such, it’s important that you guys establish a STOP word that you can use during sex games to indicate that the game has reached a certain personal threshold.

When this STOP word is used, the other must fully respect the other’s wishes and stop (or downplay) the sex game. This word must be treated seriously. If you still continue despite your lover saying the STOP word then trust in your relationship takes a serious downturn.

Agree to how much `information’ leaves the bathroom.

Let’s admit it. It’s nice to be known as the `stud’ who engages in sex games and wild lovemaking with his partner. Unfortunately, your lover may not agree to this information being leaked to all your friends. But then again he/she may be ok with it! You’ll never know until you discuss it and agree to discuss or not discuss your wet and wild activities with others.

Some couples also like to engage in a little erotic video recording while doing their sex games. If you guys try this out, pre-agree on where to keep the video and if you guys should keep this just between the two of you or if you’re ok if it’s seen by others. Also, on the remote chance that you guys ever breakup, discuss now what’s going to happen to that video. Unless of course, you both want to be Internet stars.

Bath and shower sex games are truly great ways to spice up a relationship. Talk about it with your lover and discuss and pre-agree on the items above. These will ensure that you engage in sex games truly comfortable with one another.

Some sex games take a lot of time and preparation and admittedly, not everybody has that time or energy at the end of a long and tiring day. However, this does not mean that you should forego sex games altogether. There are quite a few that you can easily just do without much preparation.

Simple, Erotic Sex Games to End the Day

Let Me Get to Know You Better…

This game is great for new couples but it’s also perfect for couples who just want to reconnect to the early stages of their courtship. The game plays on that old favorite… fill in the blanks. Following are sample sentences that your partner should complete.

My favorite lovemaking experience with you was when we …

My favorite time of day to have sex is …

I really would like to try the … sex position soon.

I wish we did more …

I wish we did less …

I would really like to include … during sex.

Outside our bedroom, I would really like to try and make love at …

This sex games does not have to end up in making love but you can’t deny that it makes for great foreplay so in the end it’s up to you guys how you want this game to end.

What’s for Dessert?

Prepare several erotic scenarios that are easy to do. For example, you can write down oral sex for her; oral sex for him; a long, hot, and relaxing soak in the tub; a sexual massage; and others. Place all these scenarios in a bowl or box.

On a particularly tiring day, after a nice, hot dinner, whip out this box and ask your lover to pick one out and simply do it! Again, ensure that the things you list down are simply, sexy pleasures. They do not have to lead to sex at all but should promote intimacy between the two of you at the end of a tiring day.

Design Your Own Ending

This is another mild sex game you can try after dinner or at the end of the day. Prepare a set of various activities after dinner such as “eat ice cream and just watch TV”, “go out and take a walk”, “go out and see a movie”, “have unbelievable rough sex… NOW!”.

Make sure that there’s one really HOT option in every 5 mild ones. This way, you guys never really know what’s coming up! The sexual tension alone will surely put you guys in the mood.

HOT Variation Tip # 1: Of course, you can just as well come up with a DO NOT PICK IF TIRED set of options. In this bowl or box are your hottest and wildest sex scenarios and as such should only be used when both partners have stamina!

Writing on the BACKboard

This sex game is relaxing because it starts off as a gentle back rub or massage. After your partner has relaxed and loosened up, then it’s time for you to get a bit naughty. Using nothing but your fingertip or nails, write something erotic – but short! – at the back of your lover.

Your lover does NOT make a verbal guess. He or she makes a guess by DOING what he/she thinks you wrote down. If the guess was accurate, then it’s time to switch places. If not, then you can write down another naughty thing!

The nice thing about this sex game is you communicate via other means instead of saying things aloud which helps couples improve their communication skills. And again, this sex game need not end in lovemaking. It can just be a really sexy game for err… `relaxation’.

Bull’s Eye!

Put up a modified dart board up in your kitchen or bedroom. The dart board should have nothing put simple pleasure for you and or your partner. For example, you can have “foot rub”, “back massage”, “scalp massage”, “be served on the couch all night”, etc.

The objective of this sex game is simply to put a little bit more thrill to pleasuring each other tonight after a particularly long and stressful day. It doesn’t have to be treats for both of you. For instance, you and your partner can take turns every Friday as the recipient of the treats.

HOT Variation Tip # 1: Include very hot, naughty treats just a few times on the board such as “blowjob”, “oral”, “woman on top”, and others. This just increases the element of sexual tension.

When was the last time you shared a long, luxurious bath or some quickie shower sex with your lover? Remember how excited, naughty and hot you guys felt? Well, bring that back on with these new and exciting tips for bath and shower games.

Making love in the bathroom brings a different dimension to sex. Your senses seem to be more alive. All of a sudden, you feel the burst of water from the shower head stronger, the scent of the soap or bath gel seems more potent, the body sponge seems to be coarser on your silky body… whew! aren’t these enough reasons to engage in sex games in the shower?!?

Bath and Shower Sex Games 101

Bath and shower sex games depend a bit on what you have in your bathroom. For example, a big bathtub can allow for sex games (and sex positions) lying down, while a bubbling Jacuzzi can mean sex games involving, well, pulsating jets of water on certain body parts. But don’t worry, if you don’t have access to these, shower stalls bring on their own range of sex games!

First of all, enhance the mood inside the bathroom with a few simple elements. Light some candles, burn a bit of scented oil, you can even a portable CD-player and play some sensual music. Do what it takes to crate the perfect sexual environment.

Now on to our bath and shower sex games.

The Shower Sex Slave. In this game, you take the role of a slave, and your only purpose is to wash and clean the other. Start by undressing the `master’ and combing her hair to remove tangles. Next, work up a lather and start to gently scrub and wash her body. Of course, you need to clean EVERY crevice of her body. A good slave never misses a spot. Now, shampoo her hair and by this we mean not only the hair on top of her head.

As you bathe your `master’, feel free to tease every inch of her body. Remember, in this sex game, her whole body is fair game so feel free to touch, poke, caress, and others.

At this stage, it’s up to you guys where you want to go. You can proceed with lovemaking or change roles and you get to be `master’ now.

The Shower Cowgirl / Cowboy

This sex game involves the use of shower pistols. Feel free to aim and shoot at each and every erogenous zone on your partner’s body.

The White T-Shirt Contest

Okay, this sex game is more for your benefit. Ask your partner to shower with a flimsy white t-shirt on and just watch her as she gets wet under the shower. As her nipples get rock-hard under the shower head, start to play with yourself. Seeing you play with yourself should make her do the same with her body. When you guys can’t take it anymore, come together in what can only be described as wet and wild sex!

The Voyeur

There’s always a hint of the Peeping Tom in all of us. Bring this to the next level by engaging in foreplay in front of the bathroom mirror. Clear the bathroom counter and sit her on it. Start foreplay; all the while taking sneak peaks at each other on the mirror.

Peek-a-Boo

This one needs a bathtub where you guys can lie down or sit up. Make a perfect bath with lots of bubbles/suds. The point is to tease your partner with your manhood. As your erection gets bigger, it should `break the surface’ of the bubbles and thus be accessible to your partner. How she accesses it is up to her. She can use her mouth, hands, toes. When it’s your turn, the object of your attention is her erect and perky nipples.

Wheel of Steamy, Sex Fortune

The object of this game is to spin the wheel and do whatever sex activity or position the wheel indicates. Actually, you can purchase something like this from sex shops, which even come with suction cups so you can attach it on the bathroom wall or shower stall glass. You can also just make your own.

If you make your own, try to make one with two wheels. One that indicates time period (60 seconds, 5 minutes, 10 minutes, etc.) and one that holds a picture of the sex activity (e.g., French kissing, licking, deep throating, etc.) or sex position (man on top, woman on top, doggy style, etc.). Wherever the wheel stops, you guys must do whatever the image indicates for the time period the second wheel says.

Have fun!

One of the reasons to include sex games in your relationship is to increase excitement and to remove boredom or prevent anything in your relationship from reaching `routine status’. As such, you should always be on the lookout for more, new and exciting sex games to try with your lover. And for that you need not go far, simply read on and see which one you want to try tonight, and which ones you want to save for later.

Daring Sex Games to Push Excitement and Intimacy to the Next Level

HONEY, I LIKE SPORTS TOO

Sports and sex: what a lethal combination! If your partner is one who’s not into sports as you are, then this sex game is a great way for her to take part in your love for the sport too. Start by agreeing on a sport that you both will watch. Assign different teams to each other.

List down several sexual activities: each one increasing in naughtiness and heat level as the last. Watch the game together and list down each team’s scores. At the end of the game, the team/partner with the highest score wins! The loser needs to carry out ALL of the sexual activities listed by the winner.

HOT Variation Tip # 1: Instead of waiting for the game to end, cash in your points each time your team scores something.

HOT Variation Tip # 2: Carry out this sex game while having family and friends over! During each break, sneak off to the bedroom or bathroom and start collecting your winning points!

FIND YOUR PLEASURE

List down the Top 5 things that you know your lover just absolutely loves you performing on her. Don’t be shy to list down things that really make her crazy and shout! Turn these things into five sex coupons and hide it in different places of your bedroom. Tonight, tell her that she needs to go on a massive sex coupon hunt.

As she searches in the room, say if she’s `hotter’ or `colder’ as she comes close or far to a sex coupon. Whatever coupon she finds, you must do the deed listed on the coupon!

HOT Variation Tip # 1: Use a timer and set this to 30 seconds or 1 minute. Your partner should find as many sex coupons as she can in that time. Whatever she finds, you must do whatever’s listed on the coupons found.

HOT Variation Tip # 2: Don’t list various sexual activities on the coupons, list down sex positions instead. Another tip is not to indicate this in words but in pictures. Cut out (or download from the internet and print out) some really hot sex positions and paste this on the sex coupons.

TRUTH OR DARE

This is a sexualized version of this popular game. Tonight, make sure you’re alone at home. After a nice, sexy, romantic dinner, turn down the lights, light some scented candles and play some soft, sexy music.

Take of all your clothes and sit across each other on the floor or bed, and then play the traditional Turn or Dare game. This time, however, only questions concerning sexual activities are allowed. Use this opportunity to really know your lover and help her bring out your sexual fantasies to life. For example, you can ask questions like “what public place would really like to try and have sex?”, “what sexual fantasy do you want to try tonight”?

BLINDFOLD ME

In this sex game, you’re blindfolded by your lover and she gets to put some lotion or scented oil all over your body. (Stuff like chocolate, honey, or whipped cream is also allowed.) She then starts to touch a part of your body with something (a feather, cotton ball, her tongue, etc.) and then you have to guess what she’s using to touch you. If you guess correctly, you can demand a sexual activity from her. If you guess wrong, she gets to ask a sexual activity from you.

THE ONE-NIGHT STAND

Role-playing is very much a part of many sex games. It’s a great way to break down any shyness on your or her part because a part of you thinks that it’s not really you engaging in that sexual act anyway. One favorite sex game of many couples is to role-play the one nigh stand affair.

Don’t plan this one. Just email, call or send a message to your partner that you plan to eat out tonight and if he/she can meet you at this pub or bar later. (You can decide to meet at a real sleazy bar.) Don’t give anything else away.

Once you meet at the pub, act like you’re someone else and try to `pick her up’ from the bar. If she’s game, she’ll easily pick up your hints and play along. Now, move on and DON’T go home. Go to a motel or hotel room and do the deed!

Not all sex games need to end up in intercourse. Keep in mind that the objective of sex games is to spice up your sexual relationship and if the actual `effect’ takes place immediately afterwards, great. If not, it doesn’t mean that the sex game was not successful. It’s just that the effect takes place later.

Furthermore, no matter how hard we try, sometimes, you (or your partner) are not just in the mood for lovemaking. But that doesn’t mean that you forego sexual playfulness all together! And this is where subtle sex games come into play.

Shower Sex Games to Whet Your Sexual Appetites

The ABCs of Your Anatomy

While relaxing together in the bathtub, why not play the Sexual ABC game? This sex game challenges your knowledge of the human anatomy. The objective of the game is to have your partner work through the alphabet (you’ll be the one dictating the letter and body part!) by gently massaging the various parts of your lover’s body.

For example, for A, you tell your partner to massage your Ankle. For B, tell your partner to massage your Back. If you manage to work from A to Z, then pick your favorite massage and go back to that body part!

Take the Shower Sex Quiz!

At one time, that sexy modern-day goddess known as Angelina Jolie has been quoted as saying that something about being naked in the bathroom makes her free to discuss anything and everything (or something to that effect). So is it the perfect opportunity now to have your lover take a sex quiz while you two are in the shower? Give it a try!

In reality, one or the other always makes fun of sex quizzes but if you know how to read between the lines, there’s always a glimmer of truth somewhere there. So before you get into the bath or shower tonight, browse the Internet for a fun and intriguing sex game that you and your partner can go through. Some fun quizzes can be about erogenous zones, sexual myths, sex positions, or even STD’s!

It’s a great way to know more about your partner and going through a sex positions quiz will help you gauge just how much your partner knows, and/or what he or she is willing to do in that department.

The Sexual Auction

Put together a list of at least 12 romantic or sexual activities. Here’s a sample list: walking together in the park, working out together, oral sex, missionary position, woman on top, sexual massage, foot massage, bathroom sex, doggie style, cooking together, going out on a `date’ (dinner out and watching a movie), and sharing a bath in the tub.

Put the activities you wrote down in a bowl or plastic bucket. Pick out an activity and using either plastic play coins or writing down amounts, make a `secret bid’ for that activity.

For example, she bid $25 for a foot massage, and you bid only $10. This means that she wins the activity from you. The price is then collected at any time.

Sexual Authors

Turn off the lights, burn scented oils and light a dozen or so candles. Play some sensual music and run the bath. (If you don’t have a tub, standing under a warm spay of water is perfectly fine too!)

Now lie back and close your eyes. Start a story, any story about a man and woman hot for each other. Time your story to say 2 minutes. After 2 minutes, your partner must continue the sensual story to whatever turn of events she wants to make. After the 2 minutes, it’s your turn again. I guarantee that you guys will just naturally heat up the story as you go along, each turn making you ant to spell out more and more sexually graphic events.

Here’s a tip: if after some time you guys really get better at your `stories’, record the next time you engage in this sex game and then listen to it either while lovemaking or if your partner is away. It’s a huge turn on!

In addition to sex games not always having to end in lovemaking, note too that not all sex games require a `winner’ and a `loser’, a `prize’ and a `penalty’. Just engage in them wholeheartedly and the game is a reward in itself.

Bathroom or shower sex games can be a great way to get to know each other’s bodies better. And the best way to do this is to also include sex toys, the waterproof kind of course.

For such a long time, the use of sex toys had tinge of taboo about them. Fortunately, that’s slowly but surely changing now. In fact, many couples swear that using sex toys has drastically improved their relationship. How? Well, consider the following.

It’s a known fact that most female partners never reach an orgasm during intercourse. But what’s worse is that most women don’t even mind it! This is because they themselves do not know how to turn themselves sexually on. Yes, most women are also not in tune at how to bring themselves sexual pleasure so when you think about it, it’s kind of unfair to expect men to instinctively know how to bring us to a climax, isn’t it?

Even if some women do have an idea on to how sexually arouse themselves, discussing it with their partners is another thing altogether. Issues of awkwardness, insecurity, and others arise.

Sometimes, it’s men who are not comfortable discussing these things. For them, the fact that they need `instructions’ on how to please a woman can be a turn-off in itself. (Not to mention a blow to their ego.)

So, the best way to handle this is create a scenario where both of you are comfortable. And here is where a bathroom sex game involving waterproof sex toys help!

Shower Sex Games and Toys

First of all, keep in mind that it’s always important to create the right mood. So take the time to ensure your bathroom or shower room is as sexy and romantic as you can make it. Dim the lights and turn on some candles; burn some scented oil; put on some relaxing music, and so on.

Once you guys are in the shower, start with a relaxing massage and see the stress of the day slip off of your bodies. Now, start `cleansing’ each other using bath soap and a gentle sponge. I guarantee that all this rubbing, squeezing and cleansing is going to turn you on!

Now, ask your partner to lie down if you have a tub or sit on the edge of it. (If you don’t have a bathtub, that’s fine; you can just as easily kneel in front of her.) Whip out the waterproof sex toy and start pleasuring your woman.

As you use the sex toy, encourage her to tell you how she’s feeling, what she likes, what she doesn’t like. And here’s one extremely important tip from all women to you: if she looks turned on, please do not stop what you’re doing or switch moves. Keep on doing what you’re doing and you’ll be rewarded with a climax from her.

By the time you guys are finished; this sex game would have taught you things about how to pleasure your woman more than ever. But what about your pleasure, you ask? No worries, there are tons of waterproof sex toys for men too!

Once you guys are more comfortable with the use of sex toys, you can start varying the sex game a bit more. Here’s a quick rundown of possible ideas.

Take turns. For instance, today, it’s all about her; next time, it will be all about you.

Make the objective of the sex game the “fastest” way you can make each other climax.

Make the objective of the sex game the “slowest” way you can make each other climax.

Use a timer and alternate toys. Set it to say 60 seconds and use a sex toy on her. The next 60 seconds means it’s your turn to receive some waterproof sexual toy treatment. The winner is the one who lasts longest.

Use a timer and alternate `equipment’. Set the timer to say 60 seconds and use a sex toy on her. The next 60 seconds means you get to use your own `all-natural’ equipment on her!

Keep in mind that sex toys are just aids to knowing each other’s bodies better and to bring a certain new element into an otherwise routine sexual relationship. They’re not meant to replace each other as the means to reach a climax. So do go ahead and use them; realizing that at the end of the day, these sex games and sex toys are all only meant to improve your sexual relationship and strengthen your physical and emotional bonds.