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The lights are dimmed, shades are down and your favorite scented candles are burning. The mood is just right to say hello to your monster but is masturbating to porn a good thing or not? To answer that question, yes and no. There is no such thing as good or bad but only consequences of your actions. Every consequence is either desirable or undesirable.

Whether the consequences of masturbating are desirable or not depends greatly on your perspective and who you are. It’s not the action in itself that makes something bad but the person who is doing it.

If the action (masturbating) in itself was inherently negative or positive everyone would have the same response to it. If getting off to porn was bad for you then EVERYONE would experience negative consequences when they did it but we know that is not always the case. Some have good consequences while others have horrible negative consequences.

Most people enjoy labeling something as “bad” without ever thinking that they may play a role in their negative experience. Even worse is that they like to tell others that it’s a “bad” idea-”oh no, you shouldn’t do that!”

Negative Consequences of Watching Porn

The first negative consequence of watching porn can be a very detrimental one: pre-mature ejaculation. Nothing is worse than waiting so long to have sex and when you finally get an opportunity to get laid it’s over in a few seconds. You dread looking at the girl to confirm her disappointment in your performance.

Growing up in a house with other people means that you need to break out some sneaky ninja skills when masturbating. You need to be quick, agile and most importantly not get caught. The fear of getting caught causes you to become speedster when it comes to giving yourself the low five. Get it done quickly before anyone discovers what you are doing or feel the shame of getting caught.

Unfortunately this will cause you to cum quickly when you trade in the computer screen for the real thing. Our bodies are good at learning and remembering things. Through muscle memory we learn skills and abilities that surpass conscious thinking. Without body memory no one would be able to play an instrument or drive a car because we would be thinking too much about every little action.

Cumming too quickly is the result of training your body to remember to do so. Over many quick sessions your body develops a stimulus response to seeing a naked woman. Your body knows that when you get sexually excited it’s time to have an orgasm.

Your body will respond the way you train it to. If, for example, you masturbate very quickly your body will respond by cuming quickly as well. On the other hand if you take your time your body will be trained to wait a long period of time before reaching climax.

The mind doesn’t have the ability to tell the difference between fantasy and reality. If you dream it your mind believes it. Whenever you fantasize about sleeping with the girl whose thong was hanging out the entire class you mind believes that to be real. Since you came very quickly in the fantasy your mind will send messages to the body to cum quickly when you run into the same situation in real life.

On top of that your mind likes to generalize and lump everything into one nice, neat category. It doesn’t see unique and special tits, it lumps them all into one category. When you train your mind and body to cum quickly to one naked woman it will transfer that programing over to any other women you see.

Guilt, Shame and Maddona/Whore Complex

Almost everyone has been brought up on the idea that sex and masturbating is something to be ashamed of. Through society, parents and religion we have been taught to hide our sexual nature instead of embracing it. The biggest tactic of getting people to hide their sexuality is through guilt and shame. The more guilt you have the less likely you will to engage in fun sexual acts.

This guilt and shame is triggered (mostly unconsciously) every time you masturbate. You enjoy it in the moment but shortly after the negative emotions start to come to the surface. You feel guilty or shameful every time you “sin” which leads to lower self confidence.

Porn also leads to deepen your Madonna/Whore complex. The programing that you received from church, society and parents helps you to see women in two different ways: the Madonna and the whore. The Madonna is the good girl that you marry and the whore is someone you use for sex.

Porn will give you an unrealistic view of sex and love. As much as you logically know that porn isn’t really how sex is your mind will start to see it that way. You will see women as a masturbation tool and sex as a jack hammer exhibition.

Masturbating will trigger your guilt and shame which will bring up your Madonna/ whore complex issues. Any woman that is sexual and enjoys sex will be seen as a whore through eyes because of your addiction to porn. If you do sleep with a woman you will judge her and yourself for it-no matter what you do you just can’t win.

Distract Yourself

People have many different ways of distracting themselves when they are stressed out or slightly depressed. When I get into that state I like to do absolutely nothing and just relax. Some like to exercise or drink and some like to get off to Internet porn.

There is nothing wrong with taking a break from life from time to time. It will help you to refocus your mind and build your energy back up to handle the difficult task at hand. Taking a break becomes a problem when you use it to completely ignore and distract yourself from what needs to be done.

Unfortunately another con of masturbating is that it is used to distract yourself from life’s problem. There is a thin line from taking a break and turning your back to your issues. Far too often people cross that line and become addicted to their distraction of choice.

Whacking it to porn is a very large distraction for men who are lacking in skills with women. Instead of taking on this challenge head first they resign to a life of distraction in their fantasy world-”out of mind and into porn.”

The problem is that NO matter how hard you try you can never run from your issues. Once you are aware of them there is no going back to blissful ignorance. You can go full force into hiding from them in your porn addiction but they will find you.

A Quick Note before we get to the Positives

I never really bought into the idea that releasing male fluids will drain your life energy. I think it’s complete bullshit that having sex or masturbating, life’s greatest pleasures, will leave you feeling drained.

To me, it seems like the notion that cumming will take away a man’s energy stems from the Church’s belief that masturbating and having sex is a “sin.” It’s essentially the same type of ‘this is bad for you’ programming that the Church is perpetuating.

On a genetic level our goal as individuals is to perpetuate the species through sex. We want to live long enough to pass on our seed to as many people as possible. With that said, it seems wrong to believe that our basic design is flawed and our instincts got it wrong.

We are born to fuck and enjoy sex. We feel drained at times after sex not because we are losing our ‘male energies’ but because we aren’t in great shape. If you worked out and ate right you wouldn’t feel any energy lose.

It turns out that sex is life affirming. Not having sex will cause you to become very anxious and unbalanced. “that guy needs to get laid” is said for a reason. His neurotic behavior can be balanced out by enjoying the basic of needs.

If you have bought into this new age spiritual bullshit that cumming is a bad thing get that out of your head right now. Some of you who can attest to this belief are experiencing a placebo effect. The body reacts to your minds beliefs. If you believe you will feel drained after you cum your body will act in accordance.

Positive Consequences of Watching Porn

That was a long list of negatives but there is some good that can come from watching porn. For starters, it feels damn good. It allows you to release some of the pent up tension and anxiety that rage through your body.

Standards are extremely important when it comes to mastering women. If you give it away for free no one will want it because has little value. Developing standards can be quite difficult if you have been a ‘I’ll take what I can get’ type of guy. Porn can be an easy first step to integrating a higher set of standards.

Most men will jerk off to just about anything. Swim suit models, porn stars, naked women in national geographic magazines, it’s all the same to them. If the guy is remotely attracted to the erotic image he will get off.

Start by identifying what type of women really turn you on and stick to it. What do you like? Is it blonds, short girls, tall ones, punk, goth, black, white? Me personally, I like the type of women that you see on suicide girls. The typical blond bimbo you see gracing the cover of playboy does very little for me.

From there you can start to develop an appreciation for beauty vs. ‘oh my god, she’s so fucking hot.’ When you find a girl that really does it for you take time to appreciate her beauty. Don’t focus solely on her tits and ass. Enjoy her entire body and learn to appreciate how beautiful women really are.

Greater Awareness

I mentioned before that masturbating can bring up a lot of unresolved issues to the surface. Consciously masturbating and being aware when they do come up will allow you to transcend them. Without being able to spot your problems you won’t be able to change.

Once you can see and feel your issues the next step is to let them go. Here’s a little exercise that can help you out:

**note: this exercise may sound a little airy fairy but give it a try and you’ll see why I recommend it***

Lay down on your bed or in a chair with your spine straight and place your hands on the middle of your chest. Breathe deeply and close your eyes. Imagine yourself sitting in a peaceful and serene environment. You are sitting down in front of a river in a wooded area.

Breathe deeply as you think of what is holding you back. If your issue is ’sex is a sin’ reach up into your solar plexus (above your stomach, below your rib cage) with white hands and take hold of those words.

Take the words ’sex is a sin’ and bring it all the way up your spine and out the top of your head. Imagine placing the issue into the bright, white running river. Watch as that issue floats along the white river and disappears.

Repeat this exercise over and over until you have removed your issue. This exercise can be preformed on any belief, thought or emotion that is less than healthy.

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Do the following exercise lying down flat or in a chair with your spine straight as it can be.

Start by breathing very very deeply and very slowly through your nose and into the lower part of your belly. Breathe deep enough to the point where you feel it in your PC muscle (area between your genitals and your ass). Then slowly breathe out of your nose releasing the air.

Once you have that down, imagine white light coming into your nose from the outside, down your front and into your genitals and a little bit into your legs. Once your belly is full with air slowly breathe out imagining the white light coming up your spin, all the way to the top of your head and out. Then bring the white light down into your belly and up again.

This exercise should be done throughout the day but especially during sex. It will help increase your sexual energy as well as your orgasms.

Last Longer In the Sack

Fast pace masturbating can cause premature ejaculation. Watching porn while you take your time and breathe deeply will allow you to last longer. You will see exciting images and not blow your load.

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Scientific evidence is now proving what many of us suspected to be true all along, that having regular and enthusiastic sex not only adds great enjoyment to our lives, but also improves our health and can even contribute to our longevity. As well as adding to our physical and emotional well being, it also has a whole host of other benefits.

New studies continue to show that regular sex increases immunity from viruses, relieves stress, improves health, reduces the risk of heart disease, and may even help you live longer. It also triggers the release of chemicals that improve mood and ease pain which is why it makes you feel healthier and happier.

Here are the reasons why sex is good for you:

1. Sex makes you feel happier. As well as the satisfaction you get from having sex, you will also feel more secure in your relationship which leads to a greater sense of well being. This makes you feel good and helps you enjoy life more which is why sexually active people are able to have more fulfilling and satisfying lives.

2. Sex makes you fit and healthy. Having sex on a regular basis will help you lose weight and improve your overall fitness. A vigorous session can burn off as much as two hundred calories, which is about the same as running for fifteen minutes on a treadmill. It will also improve your circulation, lower your cholesterol, and release endorphins that make you feel good.

3. Sex makes you immune to viruses. Its now known that having regular sex at least once or twice per week increases the levels of an antibody called Immunoglobulin A, which is known to boost the immune system. A stronger immune system will help you fend off illness and common viruses such as colds and flu (which is one of the reasons why sexually active people take fewer sick leaves).

4. Sex makes you less stressed. As well as making you feel good, having regular sex will help you relieve stress and improve your overall mood. People who live fulfilling sex lives are less anxious and are more relaxed than people who don’t have sex that often. Being sexually satisfied will improve your emotional well being.

5. Sex makes you live longer. As part of an active and healthy lifestyle, having sex a few times per week can add to your longevity and help you live longer. As well as helping you keep fit, having regular orgasms will boost your infection fighting cells by twenty percent or more and this will help you fight off illness and keep your body in good condition.

An active and healthy sex life is something that all couples should strive to achieve to not only strengthen their relationship, but also improve their overall health and happiness. There is no doubt that sex is good for you, both physically and emotionally, so we should all be doing it as often as possible.

In getting Good sex, am going to give you some tips, Don’t worry about your performance in bed – That you can’t achieve the satisfaction you want or find that you cannot satisfy your partner?

If so, this article is for you and will help you last longer in bed and achieve greater pleasure for both you and your partner.

The fun about sex is that it is an intense emotional and physical experience and to achieve great sex your mind and body need to work together.

* first thing to Get Good Sex, is Relaxing.
If you feel under pressure to perform, anxiety will definitely affect your performance and you will end up trying to hard and will fail to achieve satisfaction for both you and your partner.

Not being relaxed is a total passion killer.

For good sex and lasting longer in bed, you need to be totally relaxed, free your mind and concentrate only on the sexual act.

* Second thing to Get Good Sex, is Going Slowly

The number one way to last longer in bed is simply to go slower.

Not only will this help you relax, it will make your body and your partners more responsive to touch.

Take it all slowly (not just the sex act) but also all the foreplay that precedes the act of sex.

This will help relax and connect you to your partner and let sexual energy flow free.

* Next tip to Get Good Sex, Deepen your breathing.

Breathing correctly is a great way to connect ourselves with our bodies (this has been used for centuries in Eastern society) and to relax and achieve connection between mind, body and soul and you should use it to.

Try deep slow breathing in rhythm with your partner’s breathing. This simple tip will give huge pleasure to both of you.

* Next thing on how to Get Good Sex, is that the whole experience is important

Sex is not about simply achieving orgasm. It is about the whole experience and all the pleasure that precedes the final ending.

The most important element of sex is the overall experience not just achieving orgasm.

Sex gives us pleasure in numerous ways and our bodies simply love the whole experience.

* Another thing on how to Get Good Sex, is Communicate With Your Partner

Don’t be afraid to ask your partner what she likes and you should do the same with her.

Keep in mind all people are different. we have certain acts that turn us on and turn us off, so it’s important to know what gives each of you pleasure.

Every time you have sex you should try new and different things and improve on the things you have learned.

Many partners never satisfy themselves or their partners. This is simply down to a lack of communication.

* Guilt is of them also

If for any reason you attach shame or guilt to sex, you will not feel relaxed and will not achieve satisfaction.

Sex is one of the great gifts to you and everyone and should be enjoyed.

Focus only on the positive aspects (and there are many) and you will achieve love and satisfaction.

* 7. Feelings From Within

Sex is both a physical and emotional experience and you need to feel both.

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You will then are focused purely on sexual union and the pleasure and free your mind from all other thoughts.

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“Sex with someone you love is the best prescription for good health. It keeps you young, keeps your sexual organs in good working order, and it boosts your self-confidence. Nothing else stimulates all the senses quite like sex. It just puts a glow on you that no other activity does.” – Dr. Ava Cadell.

I believe that regularly occurring and frequent sex will produce certain emotional and physical health benefits. It’s long been established that there are myriad of health benefits related to sexual activity. This awareness has been recorded in our culture for centuries in the form of old wives tales such as “Use it, or lose it.” Just as if you don’t use your common household appliances regularly, they’ll also become rusty and break down.

A consistently active sex life can be directly beneficial for the cardiovascular system, particularly for men. The increase in heart rate is directly beneficial to the circulation, and can reduce the likelihood of a heart attack. The British Medical Journal published an article in 1997 that reported that men who had the highest number of orgasms had a better quality of life and lived the longest.

Sexual activity can also regulate and exercise the respiratory organs. In short, that heavy breathing with someone you love is healthy. Sex benefits neck and back muscles which increases blood flow to the brain and can alleviate certain types of headache…so, the next time your partner says, “I’ve got a headache, ” you can say, “Good, let’s make love and get rid of it.”

In the post-coital phase of sex, the relaxation of muscles can even alleviate insomnia. The release of tension can lead to a deeper, quicker sleep.Believe it or not, sex can work as a laxative, toning and controlling the lower abdominal muscles.

Sex as pain medication may sound far fetched, but consider this: Just before the point of no return, high levels of oxytocin flood the body and release endorphins that relieve pain. Sexual activity can also help to relieve menstrual cramps by providing a natural decongestion.

No more flu or pesky colds is a good reason to have sex at least once or twice a week. That’s what research showed at Wilkes University in Pennsylvania. They discovered that people who had regular sex had 30% higher levels of immunoglobulin A, an antibody which boosts the immune system.

If you think you’re overweight, there’s no better way to lose it than with increased sexual activity. It not only burns calories, but can also help turn fat into muscle more quickly than any other forms of exercise. Sex will burn a significant amount of calories but over eating will still cause weight gain. The most concise research shows that the act of sexual intercourse burns of about 200 calories, which is equal to running on a treadmill for half an hour.

Having sex keeps your organs healthy. Just as exercising the other muscles of your body contributes to your well being, sexual activity contributes to the flow of blood to your organs and helps to keep everything in good working condition from top to bottom.

There are also many wonderful psychological benefits. Sexual activity releases pleasure endorphins from the brain, which flood the body and literally de-stress it.

Sex can be an effective anti-depressant because it releases feel-good neurotransmitters from the brain called Dopamine. The physical and emotional aspect of sex can work together in improving self-esteem and adds to a sense of confidence.

Sex can help to get those creative juices flowing. Since sexual fulfillment also involves your brain, it can improve a variety of mental functions, including your concentration. Sex can make the mind more active and an imaginative approach to sex can not only spice up your love life, but it can create that wonderful feeling of sexual anticipation.

One of the most important psychological benefits of an active sex life is that it can reduce anxiety. The sedative effect of sexual activity is conducive to fighting the effects of daily tension. The emotional fulfillment that comes from an intimate sexual encounter results in the relaxation of your muscles in your brain.

Better sex life can improve your sense of smell because after lovemaking, prolactin, a hormone, flows to the brain and develops new neurons in the olfactory bulb, which is the brain’s smell center.The unique sense of intimate connection with the person you love cannot be duplicated by any other activity. Nothing else stimulates all the senses quite like sex.

There has been an enormous amount of research in the field of psychology focusing on the relationship between sexuality and mental health. Recent medical discoveries by the American Heart Association have confirmed the physical benefits of an active sex life. The American Association of Urologists and significant medical school studies at the University of California and Indiana, just to name two, have documented studies about the health aspects of an active sex life. Forbes magazine did a cover story on why sex is good for your health in 2003 with statistics from major universities and medical journals.

Let’s face it, sex is really an integral part of a healthy life and can help you emotionally, psychologically, and physically. In summation, sex is good for you health in terms of the cardiovascular system, respiratory system, menstrual cramps, acts as a laxative, burns calories, keeps your organs healthy, acts as an anti-depressant, a mild sedative, can stimulate creativity, concentration, reduce stress,…and it feels great!

Sex is certainly a normal part of our lives. However, although it is just as normal as we have our meals. It seems that not many people know the key to a better sex life. Although most people know how to have sex by nature, we will need to learn in order to have a better sex life. The followings are some tips for you if you really want to do so.

The very first thing you need to do is to explore with your partner. In fact, there are sayings that every part of our bodies is a sex organ. This can be very true. You can try to kiss every part of his or her body. And she or he can do it for you as a return. This kind of interaction can help you to understand better how you will be turned on. If you find that a particular position or part can turn you on easily, you may try to do the same at the next time. Of course you should also keep exploring new opportunities otherwise you will just feel boring eventually.

Besides, you should try to take everything easy when you are having sex. Any interruption in the mood will completely turn you off, no matter you are a man or a woman. As a result, you should not worry so much or think too much when you are having sex. You should just do it and enjoy the pleasure with your partner. Of course you should also tell your partner to take everything easy since sex is an activity for more than one person.

You should also keep trying new toys in your sex life. In fact, sex toys can be excellent catalysts for a wonderful sex experience. However, some people are just reluctant to use sex toys without reasons. Some of them may think that the toys are useless since they have their own sex organs. However, the above are totally wrong. Sex toys should be a part of your exploration. They can also be good tools for foreplay. As a result you should be open to all kinds of sex toys, as long as they do not hurt your physically.

The last point is about safe sex. Always use a condom when you are having sex. You should still use it even if you have one and only one sex partner. This is the best way to protect both of you and your partner. Of course the story will be different if you are aiming at a child. However, in this case you should have a thorough body check beforehand.

It takes two to tangle and it is a commensalism that has proved to have numerous health benefits. I am talking about sex. It is the health potion that is being advocated by most health advisers. Everybody can pay any price if there is hope for remaining young forever. Do not waste your hard-earned money with fake creams and other tiring and fruitless exercise. Love your partner enough to take every opportunity to sex. It is not a must you engage in partner sex since there also exists masturbation. The end justifies the means in this situation. A sex researcher says that the benefits of sex are what every living thing wants. Sex changes the way you look at life and adds immense sweetness to it. What about the sex health benefits? Researchers have proved that people who are above average active in sex falls ill less often. If they happen to get sick, they recover faster.

A friend of mine once told me that sex makes one happy. I support her after looking at several research findings. People who are sexually active are actually more alluring and more happy. One thing about sex is that the more you have it, the more you want. This means that once you are in the groove you automatically acquire a momentum that pushes your life without much of your personal effort. If you take delight every time you have sex you will always be eager for the next time. Every time you think about sex, your body gets aroused and if you are in a loving relationship you will end up in a very intimate relationship with your partner. Sex health benefits will forever remain your portion. Nothing hurts likes love but if you have it in plenty your health risks are automatically reduced.

To reap sex health benefits of sex it is ok if you have a partner but if you have not got any, you can still enjoy sex even when you are single. Herbernick who is a sex expert says that masturbation reaps equal health benefits provided the person feels good about it. Whether it is partner sex or masturbation high levels of oxytocin are released. This hormone has wonderful components that put your mind and body at ease. The relaxation of the body muscles is very important in reducing health risks. The feel-good effects of sex increase a persons threshold for pain. The sexual excitement and orgasm makes people less sensitive to pain and they actually experience less pain and treat severe conditions like mild ones.

Rutgers who is a sex researcher at Beverly Whipple university explains his findings. He says that a woman who has experienced orgasm is more likely to tolerate pain. Pleasure becomes the main event in a sexually active person and so psychologically the person never expects pain. This is why women who are active during their pregnancy handle labor pains with more ease compared to their counterparts who abstain from sex during this period. It has also been proved that even thinking about sex can relieve pain. Health problems expose us to a lot of pain and so being able to kill pain is among the major sex health benefits.