Bathroom or shower sex games can be a great way to get to know each other’s bodies better. And the best way to do this is to also include sex toys, the waterproof kind of course.
For such a long time, the use of sex toys had tinge of taboo about them. Fortunately, that’s slowly but surely changing now. In fact, many couples swear that using sex toys has drastically improved their relationship. How? Well, consider the following.
It’s a known fact that most female partners never reach an orgasm during intercourse. But what’s worse is that most women don’t even mind it! This is because they themselves do not know how to turn themselves sexually on. Yes, most women are also not in tune at how to bring themselves sexual pleasure so when you think about it, it’s kind of unfair to expect men to instinctively know how to bring us to a climax, isn’t it?
Even if some women do have an idea on to how sexually arouse themselves, discussing it with their partners is another thing altogether. Issues of awkwardness, insecurity, and others arise.
Sometimes, it’s men who are not comfortable discussing these things. For them, the fact that they need `instructions’ on how to please a woman can be a turn-off in itself. (Not to mention a blow to their ego.)
So, the best way to handle this is create a scenario where both of you are comfortable. And here is where a bathroom sex game involving waterproof sex toys help!
Shower Sex Games and Toys
First of all, keep in mind that it’s always important to create the right mood. So take the time to ensure your bathroom or shower room is as sexy and romantic as you can make it. Dim the lights and turn on some candles; burn some scented oil; put on some relaxing music, and so on.
Once you guys are in the shower, start with a relaxing massage and see the stress of the day slip off of your bodies. Now, start `cleansing’ each other using bath soap and a gentle sponge. I guarantee that all this rubbing, squeezing and cleansing is going to turn you on!
Now, ask your partner to lie down if you have a tub or sit on the edge of it. (If you don’t have a bathtub, that’s fine; you can just as easily kneel in front of her.) Whip out the waterproof sex toy and start pleasuring your woman.
As you use the sex toy, encourage her to tell you how she’s feeling, what she likes, what she doesn’t like. And here’s one extremely important tip from all women to you: if she looks turned on, please do not stop what you’re doing or switch moves. Keep on doing what you’re doing and you’ll be rewarded with a climax from her.
By the time you guys are finished; this sex game would have taught you things about how to pleasure your woman more than ever. But what about your pleasure, you ask? No worries, there are tons of waterproof sex toys for men too!
Once you guys are more comfortable with the use of sex toys, you can start varying the sex game a bit more. Here’s a quick rundown of possible ideas.
Take turns. For instance, today, it’s all about her; next time, it will be all about you.
Make the objective of the sex game the “fastest” way you can make each other climax.
Make the objective of the sex game the “slowest” way you can make each other climax.
Use a timer and alternate toys. Set it to say 60 seconds and use a sex toy on her. The next 60 seconds means it’s your turn to receive some waterproof sexual toy treatment. The winner is the one who lasts longest.
Use a timer and alternate `equipment’. Set the timer to say 60 seconds and use a sex toy on her. The next 60 seconds means you get to use your own `all-natural’ equipment on her!
Keep in mind that sex toys are just aids to knowing each other’s bodies better and to bring a certain new element into an otherwise routine sexual relationship. They’re not meant to replace each other as the means to reach a climax. So do go ahead and use them; realizing that at the end of the day, these sex games and sex toys are all only meant to improve your sexual relationship and strengthen your physical and emotional bonds.